This Husband Sent His Wife A Spreadsheet Of Everytime She Refused To Sleep With Him
Being married can be hard. It only takes a few months to tie the knot, but it takes a life time of work and effort and pain to last the distance.
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Along the way you're going to encounter a lot of different, unique and specific problems. One of those problems is your sex life. As the childish, honeymoon love starts to fade and the struggles of life start to take over, you might find that you are having sex a lot less than you used to, or even not at all.
I think most people in long term relationships would agree that this is just all part of the ride, however this husband decided to do something about it, in all the wrong ways.
His wife shared the experience on Reddit -
"Yesterday morning, while in a taxi on the way to the airport, Husband sends a message to my work email which is connected to my phone. He’s never done this, we always communicate in person or by text. I open it up, and it’s a sarcastic diatribe basically saying he won’t miss me for the 10 days I’m gone. Attached is a SPREADSHEET of all the times he has tried to initiate sex since June 1st, with a column for my “excuses”, using verbatim quotes of why I didn’t feel like having sex at that very moment. According to his ‘document’, we’ve only had sex 3 times in the last 7 weeks, out of 27 “attempts” on his part."
The spreadsheet in question.
That's some seriously passive aggressive stuff there. Maybe the husband is unable to find a way to discuss this in person, and it's hard to judge the man without knowing him as a person. His wife provides a bit more insight here -
"This is a side of him I have never seen before – bitter, immature, full of hatred. In person, he’d been acting normal the whole time, maybe a little standoff-ish in the last week. Completely out of left field. Our sex life HAS tapered in the last few months, but isn’t that allowed? We are adults leading busy, stressful lives. I cook for him, I do his laundry, I keep our house clean and tidy. It’s not like our sex life was going to be this way FOREVER, it was a temporary slow-down due to extenuating circumstances."
The poor woman! Obviously she's aware that they are having sex less and definitely wouldn't need it rubbed in like this. Hopefully they can find a way through this in a healthy way!