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"I've been dodging his requests to meet her left and right"
One of the major changes we go through in our adult lives is becoming a parent. It is believed that important transitions represent windows of opportunity for important growth and transformation.
Then comes the motherhood instinct, and it is a term we quite often hear. It sounds like something that "kicks in," and it is hidden during other periods of our lives and waits to awaken when we hold a child in our arms. The word "instinct" itself alludes to a genetic characteristic, something that is preprogrammed and predestined from birth.
The OP had this instinct, which is why she chose to keep her addicted brother away from her baby. Here is some background on the OP's brother:
He's in active addiction right now and is homeless living in the woods. I empathize with his situation, because I also used to be very heavily into drugs (I'm clean now), but my family and I have done everything in the world that's possible to get him help so he can be sober and live a normal life.
My pop alone has gotten him two jobs, a car, paid for a hotel room, had paid for rehab. He spits in our faces everytime to the point where only my mom and I speak to him now.
The OP finally revealed to her brother why she doesn't want him near her child, and he was furious about it. Keep scrolling to read the full story below.
I won't let my brother meet my daughter, and I also didn't tell him the reason why for months until recently. It might make the me the a-hole because I wasn't honest about my reasoning.
I think I will try to talk to him again. I love him and I want him to do better so that he can have a relationship with his niece. I'm also in constant fear that I'm going to get the call that he's dead and if that happened before were able to reconcile I would never forgive myself.
Our innate ability to attend to our infant's needs is primarily influenced by several factors. This includes our temperament, our early experiences of forming relationships with caregivers, and the neurochemical state of our body at that particular time.
Due to the fact that a mother's "instinct" will always compel her to attend to her child's needs, it is frequently trusted to protect a child which is what the OP is trying to do. She was declared not the AH.