Babysitter Calls The Cops On The Mom When She Fails To Come Home On Time, Now The Mom Is Getting Investigated By Authorities
It's a privilege to have a babysitter come over to watch your children while you go out and do your own thing. There's a special bond between babysitters and the family that they provide their services for.
You need to trust an outsider to take care of your kids while you're not around and looking for someone that trustworthy is no easy task. In this story, the babysitter is not the troubled one — it's the mom.
The OP (original poster) is a 28-year-old female who babysits on weekends to make extra cash. She's loyal to this family because she loves the kids and it's quick money for her.
OP's main issue is that the mom is never home on time. She also doesn't give OP an approximate time that she'll be home; she once went out for "brunch" which lasted from 11 AM to 7 PM.
After that, OP asked her to at least inform her about the time that she'll be home. The mom did what OP asked but she still somehow failed to show up at the agreed-upon hour.
Because of the mom's disregard for OP's own schedule, OP can't follow through with her weekend plans because of the mom's unreliable schedule. One Saturday, OP went to her client's house at 6 PM and the mom is supposed to come home at 9 PM.
Big surprise, the mom failed to be home by that time. The kids are in bed by now and OP messages the mom to ask her about her whereabouts to no avail.
Another hour passes and still no response. Midnight arrives, OP's plans are ruined, she's exhausted and pissed but there's still no answer from the flighty mother.
OP's original story below:
Electronic_ProfessorThe patient babysitter once again leaves a voicemail to tell the mom that if she's not home by the next hour, she's considering the kids abandoned and she will inform the cops.
Electronic_ProfessorShe texts the mom the same thing but receives no reply.
Electronic_ProfessorAnother 30 minutes pass and OP calls the mom once again.
The call goes to voicemail on the second ring. OP messages the mom one last time but the dedicated mother leaves the babysitter on read.
Electronic_ProfessorHad the mom texted OP to inform her about what time she'll actually go home, OP said she would have waited.
OP has never met the dad of the kids or the extended family so she can't inform anyone about what's happening. She gives the mom another 15 minutes and tries to call her again but there's still no response.
Electronic_ProfessorFinally, tired of getting the run-around, OP calls the cops' non-emergency line.
The police showed up and OP showed the agreement between the mom and her that she will be home by 9 PM. Even the police tried to call the mother but she still wouldn't pick up the phone.
Electronic_ProfessorThe police takes the kids to the police station and OP is allowed to go home.
OP was deep in slumber when she was woken up at 3 AM by a frantic phone call from the mother of the year. She was asking where the kids are, why OP is nowhere to be found to which OP answered that she only did what she promised.
OP told the mom to go check on her kids at the police station. The mom started cursing at OP and OP hung up on her then went back to bed.
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The morning after, the mom messages a long letter to OP informing her about the results of her action.
The father was called in and a DCF (Department of Children and Families) investigation against her has been launched. The mom insulted OP but the babysitter didn't think she did anything wrong.
That is until she spoke to a friend who has kids who told her she should have waited for the mom and just refuse to babysit for her in the future. The friend also thought OP was just being petty.
Electronic_Professor
But Reddit disagrees with OP's friend and they actually think OP did the right thing
DrewMaguire
A firefighter believes OP's quick action could have potentially saved those kids
AXEMAN70
What kind of mom does this? It's also very disrespectful towards OP to not honor the agreement.
honeymochie
What happened was probably the best thing for those kids
berrykiss96
The mom sounds like a charm
mrsalwayswright
Right? Wouldn't you be worried if your babysitter called you that much?
Lanky-Temperature412
She is a neglectful and entitled mom...
Nosfermarki
... who found out that her actions and inactions have dire consequences
Nosfermarki
It's a learned behavior that needed to be stopped
unknown
The mom is a walking red flag...
Jenn_aye
... and what was she doing out at 3 AM?
Jenn_aye
The mom is unreasonable and OP is in no way the a**hole
PfenixArtwork
She finally noticed her children were missing at 3 AM
ecto1a2003
!!!
Electronic_Professor
The mom is deflecting and unfortunately OP is at the receiving end
BrownSugarBare
How is that an acceptable behavior in any way?
lightthroughthepines
The mom would have at least paid OP for overtime surely
BazlarTheGnome
But of course she didn't
Electronic_Professor
At least the kids were safe at the police station and hopefully the dad is more responsible than the mom
Wonderingicon626
According to the kids, he is.
Electronic_Professor
The mom was definitely taking advantage of OP's kindness and she was most definitely crossing a boundary.
Wonderingicon626
The mom willfully ignored all of OP's calls and texts.
nebagram
It's not that far out of reach to be honest
Therapizemecaptain
"Oh no, it's the consequences of my actions!"
Therapizemecaptain
Even other parents who were in actual emergencies had the common courtesy to inform their babysitter AND paid them for their service!
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What OP did was not an overreaction. She only did what she thought was best for the kids, which is the mother's job but she was too irresponsible to do it.
It must have felt horrible to come home to an empty house with your kids nowhere in sight but she should have thought of that before staying out until 3 in the morning. OP told her what exactly she would do, all the mom had to do was go home.
At the end of this, it's the kids who will get traumatized by their mom's behavior. No children deserve an absentee parent.
