Pregnant Woman Obsessed With The "Golden Baby Hour" Wants Her Sister To Hide Newborn From Her Husband Until They Can Meet It Together
Welcome back here to yet another awesome Reddit post that we're looking into today, and this one is from the AITA thread which is one that is very popular. This thread is mostly for people who are looking for unbiased advice on whether or not they are right or wrong for what they did or said in a situation.
Sometimes, it's just best to get an unbiased opinion or advice from people who don't know you at all, which makes this the best place to go. With this being said, we are looking into a post today that was submitted by a woman who is explaining her birth situation and what she wants to happen during that time.
She explains that her sister will be with the baby first instead of her husband because she wants to see his reaction to seeing his daughter. This is just as selfish as it sounds, honestly, and people in the comments definitely had a lot to say about this situation and what is going on here.
So, if you're interested in hearing the full situation and seeing what everyone had to say in the comments, then keep on reading as we dive in and give you all the details on this situation.
OP explains the situation and a little backstory on their situation and the dynamic of their family
OP explains how she felt in those moments post-birth after not being the first one to meet their baby.
It seems to have been a big deal for OP.
We hope that OP doesn't have to go through this, though, and they won't have to deal with it at all.
This is where things get rocky.
A plan that unfortunately many didn't like.
Oof we don't know what she's thinking here.
I mean yeah, we'd be confused as well.
This is where she starts to really explain her side.
Technically she is cheating him out of being the first person his daughter sees.
The emotions are wild here on this one.
So let's see what people had to say on her situation and if she's TA.
Here's the edit she put in after reading some of the comments left on her post.
Some people came and just gave a lot of encouragement to OP and in her situation that she's going through so things will work out best.
Many people, however, came to the comments to let OP know that they were TA for suggesting this and also almost not giving her husband a choice in the matter.
It sounds very insane and honestly, maybe she's not really thinking as clearly as she should because this sounds insane to all of us.
It's pretty cruel to him for sure but we're not sure if she even sees it that way because clearly she doesn't understand why this isn't okay.
Unfortunately, this is what is happening but we don't really think that OP sees it this way at all and that's why she's making this post.
She is purposely separating her daughter from her dad and also in the most important moments, which are the moment following birth.
It's very weird honestly and people are most definitely not okay with the way that OP is dealing with this situation and planning things out.
Well, this was an interesting story. We definitely feel like there are a lot of things at play here, but at baseline, the dad should be able to see his newborn before the aunt does. We understand OP's thoughts here, but she's robbing him of his first moments with his own daughter, which is just not okay.
