Bridesmaids Share Horror Stories About The Worst Brides They Had To Deal With
Weddings are easy to make a mess out of. That’s why you usually need professionals to handle it so the stress doesn’t turn you into a monster and not let others suffer your wrath.
It’s a lot of planning and traditions that are pushed by brides and grooms that don’t even have the resources to pull it off sometimes. So what do they do?
They appoint bridesmaids that they think would bend over backward for them only to be treated like dirt afterward. And it doesn’t just humiliate them, it breaks friendships and even scars the bridesmaids emotionally enough to put them off of other weddings.
There are a lot of these stories that circulate online about the horror they had to endure as the bridesmaids to ‘bridezillas’ and ‘groomzillas’. One of them was even a bridesmaid to a ‘chillzilla’ that was indecisive to a fault, nothing ready for their own wedding, not even themselves.
There’s this commonness to their stories wherein the brides think the lives of others would stop just for them. No job, family, or personal life is apparently more important than their wedding, which is why they end up with burned bridges with these people who told their stories.
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whitkneeIt’s hard to be supportive when you’re sick and throwing up
lemonhoneydewBrides really think sometimes that bridesmaids...
skbroekerare dispensable after all the work they do
skbroekerProbably thinking to repay the privilege of being her maid of honor, she has to be at her beck and call
callmelilpsyBridezillas have this concept of having...
kitty131313the world revolve around them
kitty131313One experience to ruin them all
lunablue13
it's easy to say no the next time someone asks to involve you in their wedding
lunablue13
The bride might be madder that she would have to cover the expenses her friend was ‘supposed’ to pay for
fancypants32
Taking ‘I’d walk 500 miles’ to a whole new level
jessilyne00
Still, no consideration from the bride at all
jessilyne00
The ‘b*tch face’ comes from a place of overthinking ‘cause everything’s not all good
BrookeKat
Yeah, it’s never great to be the last resort for someone that you know doesn’t even like you
mel1323
Pyramid schemes doesn’t only ruin your chances...
kelzbelz313
of connecting with new people, it also ruins friendships
kelzbelz313
Still trying to connect the dots why OP’s situation puts a damper on the situation
Karimann
Brides and grooms get cold feet but...
thinderellaedwards
this bridesmaid got rashes
thinderellaedwards
OP already offered to remedy the dress to appease her...
jarsic88
but she must have really hated that dress on OP
jarsic88
An emergency exit would have...
prolix
been great right about then
prolix
When you’re doing a 100 and they only see 0
yeahokwhatevermeh
Tough for her that it makes her sad but imagine OP's surprise
yeahokwhatevermeh
Not at all appropriate
MiaNW8
An odd way to start and ghosting at the end. A recipe for disaster
kristab4a0d83b31
That’s a weird way to show off your priorities and insecurities
marytiff03
There’s really a lot of brides who are blind to the effort of their friends and family,
Dracula Pants
could’ve gotten a planner if they were so strict about efforts
Dracula Pants
Sad that the wedding was a mess but...
pnwfoodie
it’s a rare story where the OP ends up still friends with the bride
pnwfoodie
There’s a reason she said no to the professional hairstylist at the salon and then she got a botched job from the bride
izzie14
Might as well eloped if you’re going to have other people,
mainlysour
who aren’t professional planners do all the work
mainlysour
It was already hard to brush off the first part but oof, the second part was just a mess
kt2021
Sometimes the before-the-wedding stuff foretells how the marriage is going to be
angies43991b35a
The stress of having to figure things out and letting other people down is enough pressure to put you off
jessicagriffin
Again, sometimes brides think that picking MOHs and...
theappledumple
bridesmaids meant appointing them as unpaid event planners
theappledumple
If you’re trying to get your bridesmaids to change that much for a day,
RakishLass
better to hire people that fit into your criteria than to make them suffer
RakishLass
You have bridezillas trying to control everything but it’s as worst as chillzillas that are impossibly indecisive
peanutt801
This was a big mess that OP didn’t need to have suffered through and...
hollycc
seems like appreciativeness isn’t in the bride’s DNA but lying sure is
hollycc
Every once in a while brides forget that the world doesn't revolve around them. That the work they expect from their bridesmaids and MOH are not easy and requires them to take time out of their lives.
It's a lot of pressure and instead of being appreciated, they are often blamed for things that are out of their control. It's time to show some love for great bridesmaids and MOH that makes things smoother.
