Cher Recounts The Tale Of When She Stood Up To Phil Spector At Gunpoint
Not everyone can say they’ve faced down a loaded gun and won, but Cher isn’t just anyone.
Long before Phil Spector became infamous for the murder of Lana Clarkson, the legendary music producer was known for his volatile personality and his towering presence in the music world. But even his most erratic behavior didn’t intimidate Cher.
In her recently released memoir, Cher: The Memoir, Part One, the iconic singer recalls a chilling 1974 encounter when Spector pulled a gun on her—and how she made sure he knew he’d met his match.
Cher first met Spector in 1962 when she was just 16 years old. She was introduced to him by her then-boyfriend, Nino Tempo, who worked with Spector at Gold Star Studios.
From the very first moment, their relationship was unusual. “The first thing he said to me, in French, was, ‘Would you go to bed with me?’” Cher recalls. He thought she wouldn’t understand, much less respond, but Spector underestimated her.
Without missing a beat, she responded—also in French—“Yes, for money.” This cheeky comeback set the tone for their strange friendship. Spector, already a self-made millionaire by 21, seemed to respect Cher’s refusal to be intimidated by his antics.
Their paths crossed again when Cher began dating Sonny Bono, who worked closely with Spector on his production team.
While Bono often begged her to tread carefully around his boss, Cher never held back. She stood her ground and challenged Spector when others wouldn’t.
A young Cher strikes a playful pose during a recording session at the legendary Gold Star Studios in Los Angeles
Michael Ochs Archives/Getty ImagesFast-forward to 1974, when Cher’s friendship with Spector took a darker turn. At the time, Spector was producing John Lennon’s Rock ‘n’ Roll album, and he asked Cher and Harry Nilsson to record a guide vocal for a Martha and the Vandellas song, “A Love Like Yours.”
The song was never meant to be released since both Cher and Nilsson were bound by contracts to other labels. However, weeks later, Cher learned that Spector had illegally released the song in Europe, violating her contract. Furious, she went to his Los Angeles home to confront him.
Cher's memoir dives deep into her iconic, unfiltered, and unforgettable journey
Dey Street BooksShe greeted him with a hug and calmly asked what he was thinking. As the conversation escalated, Spector grew agitated and picked up a revolver from a pool table, twirling it on his fingers.
Unfazed, Cher unleashed a verbal tirade, warning him never to pull that stunt—or any other—on her again. Spector apologized, and Cher left unscathed.
The mastermind of the 'Wall of Sound,' Phil Spector, at the mixing board in 1966—before his legacy took a chilling turn
Michael Ochs Archives/Getty ImagesReflecting on the incident later, she believed he wielded the gun more for show than malice. However, the encounter solidified her resolve never to let anyone take advantage of her, no matter how powerful.
Cher and Sonny Bono exuding retro charm in 1963—a year that marked the start of their unforgettable partnership.
Daily Express/Mirrorpix via Getty ImagesCher’s gun incident wasn’t an isolated case. Spector had a well-documented history of threatening women with firearms.
During his 2009 murder trial for the death of Lana Clarkson, several women testified that he had pulled guns on them in terrifying encounters. Dianne Ogden, a veteran music talent coordinator, recounted how Spector once chased her around his house with an Uzi, forcing her to flee to her car.
On that ill-fated day in February 2003 when Clarkson was shot, Spector’s limo driver claimed to have heard a gunshot before seeing the music producer emerge from the house, gun in hand.
According to the driver, Spector admitted, “I think I just shot her.” Moments later, Lana Clarkson’s lifeless body was discovered in the foyer of his mansion.
Even Spector’s personal life was marked by disturbing behavior. His second wife, Ronnie Spector of the Ronettes, alleged in her 1990 memoir that Phil kept her a prisoner in their mansion, subjecting her to relentless psychological abuse.
Phil Spector faces justice in 2005, as his once-glittering career fades into infamy following a high-profile murder trial
Matthew Simmons/Getty ImagesIn one shocking claim, Ronnie revealed that Phil kept a gold coffin in their basement, threatening to kill her and display her body if she ever tried to leave him. She ultimately escaped in 1972—with the help of her mother—fleeing barefoot in the middle of the night.
Oddly enough, Spector maintained Clarkson’s death was an ‘accidental suicide’ till he passed away in 2021.
Cher’s encounter with Spector is one of many gripping anecdotes from her storied career. But it also gives us a glimpse into the darker side of the music industry—a world where power often goes unchecked.
