Young Man Confronts Dilemma As Parents Seek Reconciliation After Disowning Him Some Years Back Over His Career Choice
Family, they say, is the pillar of life. But the same family can also inflict the deepest cuts, and these scars take a lifetime to mend.
Our narrator’s (Original Poster’s) passion for filmmaking led to a painful rupture with his parents and siblings, all of whom had different aspirations for his future.
OP came from a family of high achievers, the offspring of African immigrants with big dreams. They picked white-collar careers for all their children, and OP was no exception.
With a doctor, lawyer, and engineer already within the family, OP was ordained as the next engineer. There was no contesting this.
He followed this path dutifully up until college, where he met a partner who altered his path forever. OP’s college girlfriend was in film school, and filmmaking had always piqued his interest. He began a self-taught cinematic journey with her help, shooting everything in sight until he became a maestro.
OP excelled so well that it became his side hustle; he’d shoot music videos and documentaries during his free time. By the time OP graduated, he had decided where his passions lay - the only problem was breaking the news to his parents.
Well, they found out the hard way when OP chose a South Asian documentary shoot over an engineering internship. It didn’t go down well with his family, who kicked him out; only one sibling showed support.
Fast forward to the present, and our filmmaker is now a success story, financially independent, and soon to be married. Suddenly, his mother extends an olive branch, seeking forgiveness.
OP misses his parents, but the wounds still run deep. Can family, the source of pain, also hold the cure?
The story in detail

OP got kicked out by his parents

Some context

OP chose to follow a career in filmmaking, rather than the engineering career his parents had mapped out for him

OP’s brother was the only one who believed in him, and now that his career is going smoothly, his parents want to reconcile

Important edit

Here’s how the Reddit community reacted to the story:
“Meet with your parents, see what they have to say. You are in the drivers seat.”

“If you go and you don't get the apology you've been wanting what will you do going forward? “

“Why not meet with her and see what she has to say? Take things slowly, expect some growing pains.“

“The more important question is: Do YOU want to reconcile with your parents?“

“So now that you're rich and successful they will ‘recognize’ you as their son, but not before?“

“No harm in meeting with her and seeing what she has to say..... Nothing ventured, nothing gained.“

It's a pivotal moment for our filmmaker. Meeting with his parents could be a chance to heal old wounds.
He is in the driver's seat now. There’s no obligation to welcome them back if he decides against it.
Additionally, as a successful cinematographer, this is his chance to show them the brilliance they once doubted and break stereotypes.
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