Emily Ratajkowski Connects Diddy Allegations To Menendez Brothers Case, Sparking Conversation On Male Victims
Emily Ratajkowski has stepped into the spotlight, not for her modeling or acting, but for speaking out about a topic that often goes overlooked: male sexual assault. The star recently took to TikTok to discuss the shocking allegations against Sean "Diddy" Combs and to draw parallels with the infamous Menendez brothers’ case, highlighting a disturbing pattern in how male victims are treated.
Her bold stance has sparked widespread discussion about the stigmas that prevent male survivors from coming forward, and why society’s bias allows powerful figures like Diddy to "hide in plain sight."
In recent weeks, Diddy has faced serious allegations, including rape and see*ual abuse, which have sent shockwaves through the entertainment industry. Meanwhile, Netflix’s new series "Monsters" has revisited the Menendez brothers’ story, shedding light on the abuse Lyle and Erik Menendez reportedly endured from their father—a factor that led them to murder their parents in 1989.
Ratajkowski has linked these cases, arguing that cultural prejudices against male victims of se*ual abuse have allowed such horrors to be overlooked and dismissed. Her insights have prompted many to reconsider how society addresses abuse, especially when the victims are men.
In a candid TikTok video, Emily Ratajkowski highlighted the parallels between Diddy’s alleged actions and the Menendez brothers’ tragic story. "With everything that's coming out about Diddy and the allegations, and also this new Menendez brothers show called Monsters, I think we need to have a conversation about male se*ual assault," she began.
Exploring a Hidden Pattern of Abuse
The model stressed that Diddy’s ability to "hide in plain sight" was partly due to societal biases that view male se*ual assault as emasculating, causing shame and silence among victims.
Ratajkowski went on to discuss how, during the Menendez brothers’ 1996 trial, the defense’s focus on questioning Lyle Menendez about his sexuality was an attempt to discredit him, implying that his abuse at the hands of his father was something he had wanted.
John Lamparski/WireImage"Being asked if he's gay because of what his father did to him, because he was a victim of sexual assault, is really, really scary," she stated, emphasizing how this line of questioning was intended to shame and disempower male victims. The model’s insights have resonated with many, sparking conversations on social media about the need to break these damaging stigmas.
The Cycle of Silence and Abuse
Ratajkowski continued her argument by noting that many male victims, unable to process their trauma, may perpetuate cycles of abuse. She cited R. Kelly as an example—a convicted abuser who himself suffered sexual assault as a child.
"To be clear, I’m not making excuses for these people," Ratajkowski clarified, "I’m just saying there are ways we can stop the cycle from happening." Her call to action was clear: society must address male abuse survivors with the same empathy and seriousness afforded to female victims.
Public response to Ratajkowski’s statements has been overwhelmingly supportive. Many fans praised her for addressing a topic often swept under the rug.
MIKE NELSON/AFP via Getty Images“Thank you for speaking about this, it’s so important,” one follower wrote, while another commented, “You couldn’t have explained it better.” The conversation ignited by Ratajkowski’s comments is a reminder that sexual assault affects all genders, and that ending the stigma around male victimhood is essential for preventing future abuse.
If you or someone you know has been affected by the issues discussed, please reach out to The National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (4673) or visit online.rainn.org for support.
