Private Investigator Lists Four Major Indicators That Your Significant Other Is Being Unfaithful To You
Entering into a relationship carries with it the unfortunate reality that some of them may end with cheating being the cause. There are couples out there right now where one partner is happily oblivious to the other person's infidelity.
There are also cases where one partner feels uncomfortably suspicious because something feels off in the relationship, but they may not know why. Private investigator Aaron Bond says that there are four primary indicators that a partner may be cheating.
Almost all of them involve a shift in behavior, but you need to pay attention to how they change. Kicking off this list is phone passwords.
Giving your lover an unlocked phone, which they may do anything with, is seen by some as one of the best ways to show your partner how much you trust them in a relationship. Come on, giving up the evidence would be extremely foolish if you were cheating.
But then, if you are the victim of infidelity, you may notice a shift in your partner's behavior about their phone. Bond says that you should be looking out for your partner 'changing their passwords' and 'carrying their phone around with them.'
You see, these actions make it difficult to see what's happening on their screen. It may also be a sign that they don't want you to see the texts they receive, especially if they put their phone face down when you're present.
When They Are Always Hiding Or Changing Passwords
Getty Stock ImagesThe second sign is when the s*x count keeps going down
It's quite common for you and your partner's sexual life to change over time, and according to Bond, the quantity of s*x you have would probably decrease when cheating happens.
"Something is definitely up and I need to know what"
However, Bond did point out that occasionally, "they may also have more s*x at home" since they may be trying to cover up their infidelity with s*x due to feelings of guilt.
Getty Stock ImagesAccording to Bond, a cheating partner may also attempt to "introduce new things into your s*x life that weren't there before.". Infidelity is wrong when it happens, but in an effort to defend their actions, someone who is cheating on their partner may begin to paint their spouse as the bad guy.
Thirdly, When They Become Quiet And Withdrawn
People will occasionally vent to each other in relationships, so if you're just starting out, be prepared to hear a lot about their day and personal affairs.
Getty Stock ImagesIf they suddenly cease doing this, that can be a cause for concern. Bond said that although they might merely be in a bad mood or have been dealing with something else, it might also be an indication that they're feeling guilty or are even trying to hide their true feelings by saying as little as possible to avoid being caught lying.
And Lastly, When You Feel The Negative Energy
Negative force Infidelity is wrong when it occurs, but in an effort to defend their actions, someone who is cheating on their partner may begin to paint their spouse as the bad guy.
Getty Stock ImagesBond said that in an attempt to feel less guilty about cheating, a cheating partner may begin to look for flaws in you and your relationship. Even though your partner's infidelity is obviously not your fault, you could feel as though you're not doing enough to keep the relationship going.
In all, you should always remember that you're enough, and you can also share this article with your loved ones.
