Woman Discovered Her Close Friend Created Her Tinder Profile Without Her Knowledge, And She Created 20 More After Confrontation
It's perfectly fine to have standards when looking for a partner. It can actually be a positive thing.
Having standards will help you attract the person whose characteristics are important to you. It's a starting guide when looking for someone who shares your interests, life goals, and values.
Remember that each person has different life priorities and preferences. So it's perfectly okay to look for someone whose views on fulfilling relationships align with yours.
But sometimes, there are people out there who criticize some of us for having "high" standards when that isn't necessarily the case. Today's story is about two women whose friendship got destroyed.
According to the original poster (OP) who shared her story on the "Am I The A**hole?" (AITA) subreddit, it all started with a discussion about relationship standards.
The OP clearly stated that she isn't interested in a relationship at the moment, but her friend asked about her standards anyway. She specified pretty basic standards, but her friend judged her instead, saying her standards were too high and that she'd never find a guy.
Later that day, the OP got a message from her brother with screenshots of her photos on a Tinder profile. Eventually, she found out that the friend who asked about her standards made the profile without her permission.
The friend defended her actions, saying that she was doing it to find a good guy for the OP.
A woman found out that her friend created her Tinder profile without her permission.
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The OP told her friend that she doesn't want to date anyone at the moment.
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Her friend asked about her standards, so she said them one by one.
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The friend then judged the OP for having "high" standards.
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The OP got angry upon finding out that it was her friend who did it.
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Things went further downhill with the OP's friend.
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The OP is considering to take things to court.
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TW: Looks like the friend turned psychotic and sent someone to assault the OP.
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This should be the first step.
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She can charge her friend with identity theft.
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What the friend did can have serious consequences on the OP.
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Sadly, the OP also needs to freeze her accounts as she doesn't know the extent of the identity theft.
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The OP can charge her friend with trafficking if the messages in her profile are suggestive.
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Redditors believe that nothing's wrong with the OP's standards.
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Creating profiles from someone else is never okay.
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Every behavior that the OP's friend displayed is unacceptable.
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The friend's standards being low isn't the OP's problem.
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The OP's standards are basic. They're not considered high.
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More people agree that the OP's relationship standards are reasonable.
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Imagine a world where the OP's standards are already considered high. Yikes!
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What the friend did is intrusive to the OP.
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Better stay away from a toxic friend like this.
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What's going on with the mind of this friend? Does she not know what identity theft means and the risks that the OP can face?
It wouldn't be surprising if the OP decided to press charges against this friend. It's very inconvenient, but the OP also needs to take action, as her identity might already be compromised.
