Bride Furious At Guest For Fainting And Damaging Photographer’s Camera, Accuses Her Of Ruining Wedding
Weddings are a time of joy, celebration, and sometimes, unexpected events that test the strength of relationships and the flexibility of plans. During these meticulously planned occasions, life has a way of throwing curveballs that no one sees coming.
Such was the case for a young woman attending her aunt's wedding on an unforgivingly hot day. This story touches on the balance between personal health and social obligations and how a moment of physical weakness can lead to unforeseen consequences.
OP attended her aunt’s wedding a few weeks ago. She was not part of the wedding, just a guest, which she was fine with.
Before the wedding, everyone was advised to drink lots of water and eat beforehand because it was going to be extremely hot that day. The wedding started at 5:00 pm, and OP had absolutely nothing to eat or drink up until then, except maybe a granola bar because she was extremely busy that day.
So when it was time for the wedding, OP was already tired and hungry. About thirty minutes into the wedding, she was feeling uneasy and lightheaded, so she excused herself to go to the washroom.
As she was walking, she got that feeling like she was about to collapse. The next thing she can remember was coming to and seeing lots of people surrounding her, including the bride and groom.
When she fainted, she fell onto the photographer who was crouched down near her. Not only that, but he dropped the camera lens down, and it broke.
OP doesn’t even remember seeing the photographer, but she may have been too dizzy or something to have seen him. The wedding was a bit of a cheaper one, so the photographer was a family friend of the groom who only had one camera with him.
The bride was just in tears that she wouldn’t have any good pictures from her wedding. The photographer insisted that he could drive home and grab a different one, but it would take too long.
The bride was indeed mad at OP, but she feels it was a bit harsh as it was extremely embarrassing for her already. Fainting never even crossed her mind as something that would happen at all.
They did get pictures, but they were on cell phones.
OP went to her aunt's wedding recently, before the event, they were told to hydrate and eat due to the expected hot weather.
OP arrived at the wedding exhausted and hungry since she hadn't eaten or drunk anything all day due to being busy.
During the wedding at the church, about half an hour in, OP started feeling dizzy and unwell.
OP woke up to find herself surrounded by many people, she had fainted, and accidentally knocked over the photographer, causing him to drop and break his camera lens.
The photographer at the wedding was a family friend of the groom, he only used one camera, and the bride was upset that she would not have pictures.
The photographer couldn't fetch another camera quickly, so the bride got mad at OP, which seemed harsh.
While it wasn't intentional, OP neglected to eat or drink despite knowing it would be hot.
OP's actions rightfully upset the bride because they affected her wedding photos.
Negligence led to fainting at a wedding due to not eating or drinking despite advice.
Nobody is too busy to drink water.
OP should take five minutes to drink water and eat a sandwich that shouldn't have been impossible.
OP must apologize sincerely without downplaying their valid feelings.
OP should take responsibility for that.
OP is the a*shole because she didn't follow the advice and ended up fainting, causing the photographer and camera to be taken out.
OP messed up by not eating or drinking when she should have, even though people told her to. The bride was rightfully upset because OP's fainting messed up the wedding photos.
OP should have listened to the advice to stay hydrated and eat something. It's not that hard to take a few minutes to drink water and eat a snack.
Now, OP needs to say sorry and mean it. She can't just brush off what happened or pretend it wasn't a big deal. She messed up, and she need to own up to it.
Even though OP didn't mean to cause trouble, she still needs to take responsibility for what happened. It's a lesson for her to take care of herself and think about how her actions can affect others.
