Pained Man Wants To End One-Month Marriage After Finding Out His Wife Lied About Her Past And Her Video On Por*hub

"I tried to get over it but I just cannot, at all"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• September 28, 2023

It is a personal choice whether to be married or live with a partner. However, for the majority of married and cohabiting individuals, love and companionship come first over other factors like the desire to have children in the future, convenience, or finances.

Making a formal commitment is another important consideration for the majority of people who are married, particularly if they didn't live with their spouse before being married. The OP and his partner have been together for 7 years, so they decided to take things up a notch.

They couldn't have a proper wedding because of the pandemic. Also, they only had two witnesses, which were the OP's mom and his partner's mom.

Now OP's partner has always told him that she was never a one-night stand or a f*ck on first-night kind of person. The OP posted a photo of them together in their garden and a guy he hasn't spoken to since school messaged him, sending him a video asking if this is his wife.

The OP took a look and saw that it was a pornhub video of his wife sucking a man in a club toilet stool. The OP definitely knew it was her because she has a shoulder tattoo, which is pretty identifying.

To say the OP was devastated is an understatement, as he couldn't cope with what he just found out. Keep scrolling and read the entire story below.

OP writes

OP says that it definitely is her because she has a shoulder tattoo which is pretty identifying

The Reddit post got more than 400 comments and here are a bunch of them

The OP could find out if only he asks her

The OP should talk to her before jumping into conclusions

She likely feels violated, used and her relationship pierced

The OP is willing to throw away a seven year relationship

It's going to be worse for her if she finds out she's online

The OP is pretty sure the wife knew she was being recorded and he says:

Oh, trust me, she had knowledge of being recorded. Conclusions is all I've got; it's not she's been forthcoming thus far so why will she be forthcoming going forward? I don't buy that stuff, if I'm being honest.

The OP should get a divorce and move on with his life

She might have lied but what if she doesn't remember it?

This redditor can bet she only enjoys all the things the OP does for her

The OP knows nothing and should act accordingly until he finds out

It was not a guy she'd been with for a while, and if it was, she lied to me about her past BFs. It was clear in the video that she knew she was being recorded. More like stopped liking it when she started dating me, because I'm not 10/10 sexy alpha male man, the OP writes.

Clearly, he's very pained about it and we hope he heals pretty soon.

Maryjane