This Guy Manipulates His Girlfriend Using Dirty Tactics Taught To Him By His Father

by Navkiran

Many people say that it is not good to play mind games with those you love. But people have different opinions; some say playing mind games could be a good thing and save your relationships, whereas some feel it might lead to the end of them.

Playing mind games means "When you make someone think and feel a certain way to achieve an outcome that they normally wouldn't agree to." Technically you wouldn't want to do this with your loved ones, and if you do, you clearly don't love them.

It can sometimes be perilous as it makes the person feel like losing control over their own emotions. It not only breaks their self-confidence but also makes them emotionally unstable, which is really harmful to their mental health.

When this happens, the person might feel "abused" by their significant other and want to either end or change the relationship. In some cases, they might end up hurting themselves or their significant other.

If you are abused in any capacity, you should get out as soon as possible. However, if there is a sincere possibility of change and the relationship could be amazing again, then it may be worth staying for those reasons.

Each person should evaluate their situation precisely to determine if staying in an unhealthy relationship is worth it. The decision to stay or leave ultimately comes down to personal judgment, and it is not always easy to make.

Ultimately leaving or staying is up to each person and their judgment call and not an answer that can be found anywhere else. So choose your partner wisely and don't be lost in love so the other person can

The constant fear of losing someone over something as petty as body odor.

The constant fear of losing someone over something as petty as body odor.
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If the boy really loves a girl, he would not complain about it but help her resolve that issue.

If the boy really loves a girl, he would not complain about it but help her resolve that issue.
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When you have to make a little extra effort to please someone, then that love isn't pure.

When you have to make a little extra effort to please someone, then that love isn't pure.
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So the boyfriend has taken over your mind and wholly shattered your self-confidence.

So the boyfriend has taken over your mind and wholly shattered your self-confidence.
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And this girl still couldn't see the red flags, and tried pleasing him while continuously failing.

And this girl still couldn't see the red flags, and tried pleasing him while continuously failing.
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You should have stopped right there, and thrown the reports on your boyfriend's face!

You should have stopped right there, and thrown the reports on your boyfriend's face!
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Friends and family never lie; you should have stopped entertaining your boyfriend once they gave you a green flag.

Friends and family never lie; you should have stopped entertaining your boyfriend once they gave you a green flag.
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Well, by this point we all know where the problem actually is.

Well, by this point we all know where the problem actually is.
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Leave him and enjoy a stress free life because, girl, you deserve it!

Leave him and enjoy a stress free life because, girl, you deserve it!
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Now that's a good move and the first step towards getting yourself back on track!

Now that's a good move and the first step towards getting yourself back on track!
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This boy doesn't deserve a girlfriend so good.

This boy doesn't deserve a girlfriend so good.
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Yes, That's right! Glad she got the courage to confront him.

Yes, That's right! Glad she got the courage to confront him.
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Now we all know who the mole is, or the mastermind! The Father!

Now we all know who the mole is, or the mastermind! The Father!
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Such a cheap tactic to play on, especially on the ones you claimed to love.

Such a cheap tactic to play on, especially on the ones you claimed to love.
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His father is wrong and a bad person who is teaching his child to be abusive and manipulative.

His father is wrong and a bad person who is teaching his child to be abusive and manipulative.
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Technically the boy isn't really wrong because children learn from their parents and the boy has the potential to change.

Technically the boy isn't really wrong because children learn from their parents and the boy has the potential to change.
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It is unfortunate to see parents teaching their children to grow up to be a bad person.

It is unfortunate to see parents teaching their children to grow up to be a bad person.
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Tbh, this is by far the most stupid method I have heard of to keep your relationship going.

Tbh, this is by far the most stupid method I have heard of to keep your relationship going.
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Well, hats off to the girl because it is hard to let go of someone you love so much and made so many efforts to keep them in your life.

Well, hats off to the girl because it is hard to let go of someone you love so much and made so many efforts to keep them in your life.
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All the love and power to this girl for making it out of a mentally abusive relationship!

All the love and power to this girl for making it out of a mentally abusive relationship!
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True that the father-son duo should definitely go for some therapy! Maybe that might make them better people.

True that the father-son duo should definitely go for some therapy! Maybe that might make them better people.
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It is Emotional, Mental, Psychological and Social Abuse.

It is Emotional, Mental, Psychological and Social Abuse.
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Yes, he did and had a reason to give, which we don't know is true or not.

Yes, he did and had a reason to give, which we don't know is true or not.
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Only if the boy thought a little logically, he would have had the girl in his life forever.

Only if the boy thought a little logically, he would have had the girl in his life forever.
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There are many factors to consider when determining whether or not you should stay in an unhealthy relationship. Many might also remain in an unhealthy relationship due to their self-esteem and self-worth.

If someone does not feel good about themselves or has low self-esteem, they could stay for this reason as well. So share this story with your loved ones and caution them about how their partner might manipulate them.

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