Mom Seeks For Ways To Deter Helicopter In-Laws From Babysitting Her Child When She Returns To Work, Husband Has Different Opinion

There are times when moms need a support system, and this support system frequently takes the form of the grandparents of our kids. But then, there is a difference between assisting and hovering.

The "helicopter" parent or grandparent frequently misses the difficulties they cause because they are too caught up in the "I am helping" frame of mind. The problem with helicopter grandparents is that they frequently undermine the parents of the child and embed themselves emotionally in the child's life.

Furthermore, they frequently cross boundaries that support the child's parents and family dynamics. Yes, we do appreciate the support of grandparents who are eager to continue where we leave off and assist us with the demanding tasks of parenting, but don't overdo it.

To put it another way, helicopter grandparents cross the line from being a concerned, involved, and devoted grandparent to one who interferes. Additionally, these grandparents could do a lot of harm in the process, just like what we see in today's story.

OP's MIL and FIL are so overbearing. In fact, they are basically helicopter grandparents, constantly telling the OP what to do and hovering over her and her husband both physically and emotionally.

They are constantly questioning every choice they make and starting endless discussions about every little thing. The OP is tired and doesn't want her babysitting her kids while she returns to work, but her husband has a different opinion.