Woman Has Been With Her Boyfriend For 4 Years And Has Never Been Intimate With Him
Welcome back today to another Reddit post that we're going to be taking a look at. This one is from the Relationship Advice thread, which is a top favorite around here.
This thread gets so much engagement and attention every single day from people posting their stories and looking for advice as well as people commenting on the post to give advice. So, with that being said, we're going to look into a post that was submitted by a girl who hasn't had sex with her boyfriend of 4 years, and she is concerned about her lack of attraction to him.
She came to Reddit and was honest about how she felt, and it looks like a lot of people came to give her advice, but we're not sure if it's the advice she would've liked. This situation is a bit odd, and to some people, it seemed somewhat normal but surprising, to say the least.
So if you're really interested in looking at the original post and seeing what everyone had to say in the comments as well, then keep on reading as we dive in and give you all of the details on the post and share the best comments, too.
OP came to Reddit withe full honesty and she talked about what she really feels with him and also how he's been responding to this.
u/ThrowRA34790People came quickly to ask her questions about her s*xuality and what she thought about things like that as that's what it sounded like.
RedditSome people said that if nothing changes then neither of them will be full happy and at that point they should just end it.
COuntless_SardineWe agree that figuring out what she likes is important because if she's not attracted to him at all or anything, then she probably is as*xual.
LovetheironySo many people are saying this and they are asking her tons of different questions but we've yet to see any response from OP on her thoughts of as*xuality.
AceyAceyAceyLots of the people in the ocmments were telling her to break up with her boyfriend because if there's no attraction then neither of them will be happy in the relationship.
FuzzyCat_6578This is honestly a question we'd like the answer to too but maybe that's just how they were so they didn't change anything. Seems odd though.
ConfidentInsecurityThis person said it great because it is unfair to both of them and if neither wants to change, then it'll continue on this way.
TamTams_groupthink
This person was suggesting therapy for her heavily here, but overall told her that the relationship probably wouldn't last much longer.
frodosbitch
Hopefull yOP took their advice and looked into some stuff about this to see who she truly is and work through whatever she needs to.
Bipolar_Bear_84
So many people chimed in on this one and we definitely think it's interesting to see what they think. We hope that she can get to the bottom of this and kind of figure out where they are with intimacy right now.
Do you agree with everything people say?
