It's kind of hard to talk about being 'poor' these days without someone telling you that you're privileged purely because you're born in or living in a fist world country. Don't get me wrong, if you're reading this, you've got access to a computer and Internet and probably are luckier than many people in the world... but it's not as simple as that.

The thing is, it's still very easy to be born into and grow up in extreme poverty in the western world - and it doesn't make you ungrateful or blind to your privilege if you want to admit that it kind of sucks.

Recently a huge thread got started on Twitter for poor kids to list the things they grew up without that their privileged friends took for granted. If you didn't grow up with a silver spoon in your mouth, you may relate to some of these.

Check on the thread below!

Here was Victoria's original question...

Former poor kids: what are some things you have in your house that you *never* had as a kid, things your not-poor friends would never consider luxuries?

— Victoria Barrett (@victoriabwrites) January 20, 2020

And here are the things she grew up without that her friends took for granted.

A few of mine are Kleenex, band-aids, ziplock bags, and paper towels.

— Victoria Barrett (@victoriabwrites) January 20, 2020

The answers came in FAST from the internet, and this one is so sweet.

The right shoes. A ? that would start most mornings. A dad. Someone to ask if I’d done my homework or brushed my teeth. Cereal without roaches in it. A house… But I had a mom who raised 3 boys on her own, working 3rd shift overtime at a factory because she ♥️d us. So. 🙂

— Everett Sizemore (@balibones) January 20, 2020

Snack options...

Snacksss omg. Not eating the same thing over and over until you get sick of it. Having the option to eat healthy. Eating out at non-chain restaurants. Clothes that fit (harder being plus sized as a kid)

— assata shakoochie ? (@sailorfemme) January 21, 2020

Heartbreaking!

Silence—no TV blaring, no one yelling, no babies crying. Peace—no one is angry or stressed because of our home. Safety—no sense of danger or insecurity. Those intangible things stand out more than the material objects.

— Erica Waters (@ELWaters) January 20, 2020

Stress at the grocery store...

I just remember watching my mom chew her lip while the grocery store clerk rang up our groceries. She was so stressed and would take things off the belt if we went over. My sister and I view wealth as “getting whatever you want at the grocery store”.

— Stefanie Moore (@Fontsensitive) January 20, 2020

Certainty.

Certainty.
That my car will start.
That my toilet will flush.
That I can refill my meds.
That my card will be accepted.
That no one will come and take it all away.

— Tony @ Setec Astronomy (@tony_bridges_el) January 20, 2020

I guess a lot of people missed out on Kleenex.

Cold cereal, Kleenex, an actual bed (instead of a mattress on top of some boxes of canned goods—my bed used to change height depending upon how long it had been since the last big sale at the supermarket.)

— Veronica Bartles (@vbartles) January 21, 2020

AC!

Air conditioning, dishwasher, disposable stuff like paper towels to clean with instead of rags that were shirts or socks, ice maker, and I would add the tangential luxury of good grocery stores in an easy commute with good produce and international food.

— Lesley Carhart (@hacks4pancakes) January 20, 2020

The drink fridge is a luxury not everyone had...

– cars that work
– canned food for cats
– a drink fridge
– a tv in my bedroom
– soft toilet paper
– an ice maker
– my own bathroom
– a laptop
– vegetables & fruit
– painted walls
– video game consoles
– an electric toothbrush
– braces (invisalign)
– furniture that’s not preowned

— Polyshed Turb (@TurboErin) January 23, 2020

Hand-soap AND dish-soap

Qtips. Kleenex. Hand soap right next to dish soap. Pillows. Dog treats. Matching socks without holes.
Enough food to last weeks. Shit like that is definitely a tell. The fact I keep a sleeping bag and camp pad in my car, that I bought because I can sleep in it if I need to.

— Lauren Hough (@laurenthehough) January 20, 2020

LIQUID MILK!

Liquid milk
Cable television
Clothes bought new from the store
Drier sheets
Fresh vegetables
Name brand cereal
Fitted sheets
Multiple pairs of shoes per person
Vitamins
Unrationed toilet paper

— Too Big To Fail (@Too_Big_To_Fail) January 20, 2020

A TOILET!

Oh my goodness, where to begin? So many things. A toilet, for starters. My family couldn’t afford to install indoor plumbing until I was 19 and no longer living at home.

— Cheryl Strayed (@CherylStrayed) January 20, 2020

Eating out!

Hot cocoa. Non-thrifted clothes that nobody else wore before me. Eating out for dinner sometimes and not just special occasions. Also eating at amusement parks/ball games/fairs. (My parents would pack us back to the car with hand stamps and feed us from a cooler.)

— Seasonal Pun (@Pixelfish) January 20, 2020

They don't taste the same...

Cable
Snack foods for lunches
More then 2 pairs of shoes
Brand name foods instead of the Sav a Lot off brand ones that “taste just the same”

— Teen Librarian Toolbox (@TLT16) January 20, 2020

Taking care of pets...

Also, this is not a “thing,” per se, but having pets that you’re able to care for responsibly, spay/neuter, and tend to their veterinary needs. I think back at my childhood and it makes me want to cry.

— Martha (@marthakimes) January 20, 2020

This is kinda cute.

Stairs. I was convinced that only mansions had more than one floor.

— Stacey Filak, recovering from ConFusion (@staceyfilak) January 20, 2020

Cleaning supplies!

Good food.
Cleaning supplies.
Multiple bank accounts.
A *stable* internet connection.
Peace and quiet.
Space.
A fucking clock.
Lots of paper.
Tissues.
Snacks.
The ability to leave and go anywhere.
A computer that works.
Books. So many books.

— EBOLA under the ? (@Gert001badger) January 20, 2020