Woman Wonders If Wearing Sports Bra At Home Is Inappropriate As Per Her Husband's Beliefs
In the hustle of morning routines, finding shortcuts to save time is common for many of us. This story revolves around a mom's unique method to streamline her mornings while getting ready for work, and the unexpected family debate it sparked.
This mom has a busy morning ritual. To save time, she wears an underwire bra and a sports bra around the house as she prepares for the day.
This includes a quick hair rinse in the sink. During this, she doesn't put on a shirt right away. Her young son is around, usually having breakfast, but this hasn't been an issue.
However, her husband has criticized her twice for not wearing a shirt, calling it inappropriate because they're not alone. He suggests it's not right for her to be dressed like this in front of their son.
OP feels her husband is making a big deal out of nothing. She believes he's making her and possibly their kids see her in a negative light.
She's upset because she thinks her husband is projecting weird ideas about women onto them. She wants her boys to respect women and not to think badly of them for something like wearing a sports bra, which is common enough in public.
She's frustrated because she feels she can't even be comfortable in her own home for a few minutes without it becoming a problem.
In the mornings, OP wears two bras and pants around the house before getting ready for work by rinsing her hair in the sink and putting on a shirt.
Her young son eats breakfast in the kitchen or living room before school and her husband asks her to put on a shirt when she is around others, saying it's inappropriate.
OP believes he's objectifying and sexualizing her in front of her children, making them view her differently.
OP wants her sons to respect women and not objectify them, she doesn't want her boys to be disrespectful to women who wear sports bras, even in their own home for a short time.
OP's husband's perspective is problematic.
His behavior is inappropriate, and it might be best to have an open conversation with him about it, possibly even considering therapy.
The kids should see non-sexual nudity to reduce its significance.
Growing up in a house where you can freely wear underwear is quite common.
In her own home, OP has the freedom to do as she pleases.
Strangely, he is sexualizing a mother walking around the house in a regular bra and underwear.
OP's concerns about her husband's behavior and its impact on her son are valid.
OP needs to address his hurtful behavior and mindset regarding his wife's clothing choices at home.
It's not rude for a child to be around when someone is breastfeeding or walking around naked in their own home, it's the husband's issue if he's uncomfortable with it.
OP's husband is being unreasonable. It's perfectly normal for people to wear comfortable clothes at home.
OP's husband shouldn't make a big deal out of it. It's not right for him to think negatively about her just because she's wearing a sports bra. OP needs to talk to her husband and try to understand his concerns.
They may even consider talking to a professional to help them work things out. In the end, it's okay for people to be comfortable in their own homes, and it's the husband's problem if he's uncomfortable with it.
