It's High Time That People Change Their Mentality So Girls Don't Have To Change Clothes

by Navkiran

In this era, people are rapidly developing in various ways. Technologically, economically and even in their mentality, people have become so broad-minded nowadays.

But due to the generation gap, some elders find it difficult to blend themselves with the mindset of today's generation, referred to as gen z. They are so stubborn when it comes to the old school teaching, their rituals, and how they behave and dress in front of others.

Elders sometimes try to force things on their children and grandchildren of the 21st century, which seems quite unfair and unrealistic. As the children have grown up in this modern world, it would be pretty difficult for them to adjust to the old school thoughts while all their friends live the contemporary lifestyle.

This story is about one family where the grandmother tried to force her rules onto her grandchildren and wanted them to change their clothes as their uncle was coming over for a casual dinner. The children's father stood up for them and strictly told the grandmother that his children should wear whatever they were comfortable inside their house.

The grandmother got into an argument regarding the tight clothes the kids were wearing, and the father gave her an ultimatum that she could eat outside if she weren't comfortable with what they were wearing.

The one place where a person can be and should be comfortable is their home.

The one place where a person can be and should be comfortable is their home.
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No one has the right to tell someone what to wear inside their house.

No one has the right to tell someone what to wear inside their house.
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If anyone has a problem with how the children are dressing, they can very well leave the house.

If anyone has a problem with how the children are dressing, they can very well leave the house.
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The daughters are right on their part! they're just keeping up with the trend.

The daughters are right on their part! they're just keeping up with the trend.
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The husband did the right thing by standing up for his daughters.

The husband did the right thing by standing up for his daughters.
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Well, there is a difference between being old fashioned and being a harasser.

Well, there is a difference between being old fashioned and being a harasser.
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The grandmother said so only because she knew how the uncle would react.

The grandmother said so only because she knew how the uncle would react.
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If the dress bothers anybody they are free to mind their own business.

If the dress bothers anybody they are free to mind their own business.
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Unlike this dad, some people listen to their elders and don't let their children wear clothes they like.

Unlike this dad, some people listen to their elders and don't let their children wear clothes they like.
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Meeting their uncle for the first time, and the experience was terrible, even before they could meet him.

Meeting their uncle for the first time, and the experience was terrible, even before they could meet him.
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Good that the mother stood by the right thing even though it meant going against her own mother.

Good that the mother stood by the right thing even though it meant going against her own mother.
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Your family did the right thing by sending them off.

Your family did the right thing by sending them off.
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The rules should be made by the people who live in the house and not by relatives.

The rules should be made by the people who live in the house and not by relatives.
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Such stories are an inspiration for other parents to stand up for their kids.

Such stories are an inspiration for other parents to stand up for their kids.
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The time of old school dominance is long gone, the grandma needs to move on.

The time of old school dominance is long gone, the grandma needs to move on.
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The grandmother just wanted to show how decent her family is. However clothes do not determine that.

The grandmother just wanted to show how decent her family is. However clothes do not determine that.
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True that, the grandma was just acting too bossy and she got what she deserved.

True that, the grandma was just acting too bossy and she got what she deserved.
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Such families act as motivation for other family members.

Such families act as motivation for other family members.
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Casual is wearing the most comfortable clothes they want, moreover, it's their house anyways.

Casual is wearing the most comfortable clothes they want, moreover, it's their house anyways.
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Well, America is quite broad-minded so are the people living there, contrary to the uncle.

Well, America is quite broad-minded so are the people living there, contrary to the uncle.
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When the parents side with their kids instead of listening to the advice given by the elder, which sometimes is just unreasonable, it makes the family bond stronger.

Share this story with your friends and family members so they know when to stand up for their kids and other family members.

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