Woman Shares How She Went On A Date With A Supposed "Nice Guy" But Was Uncomfortable All Through

by Maryjane

The majority of women want to date someone who is polite, caring, and thoughtful. But it's a well-known fact that some men who call themselves "nice guys" can actually be everything but nice.

For women who once considered them potential mates, these guys may behave so entitled, deceptive, or even abusive toward them. Nobody understands this better than Tiktoker Talisa, who recently gained popularity for releasing a (now-deleted) video on this subject.

She eventually went on a first date with a man who initially appeared to be "nice" but turned out to be quite a lot to handle. Mind you, this story doesn't have a great starting as the guy had a pretty rough beginning despite the tiktoker telling him that she doesn't like surprises.

The entire meal was under his strict control, and Talisa finally decided to rant about the terrible date in the ladies' room. Eventually, they walked out of the eatery into a downpour.

Once more, her date insisted on being a gentleman, and I'll just pause here and let you get the full story below.

Even fantastic first dates occasionally end in awkwardness

Even fantastic first dates occasionally end in awkwardnessTikTok/Talisa

Their conversation kicks off:

Me: Thank you for taking me here.

Him: You’re welcome.

Waitress: All right, I’ll get those going and then I’ll come back and grab your order.

Me: Thank you very much. Alright, so I liked what she had mentioned about the scallops. That sounded really good. I’m a big seafood fan, so I think I’m gonna do that.

Him: Let me order for you. I’ll surprise you. I know what you want.

Me: I hate surprises. You know this place better than me so…

The guy practically controlled everything

The guy practically controlled everythingTikTok/Talisa

The tiktoker made it clear that she hates surprises

The tiktoker made it clear that she hates surprisesTikTok/Talisa

Rib eye with mashed potatoes

Rib eye with mashed potatoesTikTok/Talisa

Oh okay

Oh okayTikTok/Talisa

Wine or no wine?

Wine or no wine?TikTok/Talisa

So no wine then

So no wine thenTikTok/Talisa

Adding calories to one's body

Adding calories to one's bodyTikTok/Talisa

A nice little date

A nice little dateTikTok/Talisa

What are you looking for?

What are you looking for?TikTok/Talisa

Knowing what women like

Knowing what women likeTikTok/Talisa

Here goes nothing

Here goes nothingTikTok/Talisa

A cut above the rest

A cut above the restTikTok/Talisa

Having what I have

Having what I haveTikTok/Talisa

Taking the soup too

Taking the soup tooTikTok/Talisa

Can't even order

Can't even orderTikTok/Talisa

He thinks he's nice

He thinks he's niceTikTok/Talisa

Drinking in all awkwardness

Drinking in all awkwardnessTikTok/Talisa

You will not embarrass me

You will not embarrass meTikTok/Talisa

It goes on...

It goes on...TikTok/Talisa

Just don't make a scene

Just don't make a sceneTikTok/Talisa

A gentleman gets the door

A gentleman gets the doorTikTok/Talisa

Getting there a lot faster

Getting there a lot fasterTikTok/Talisa

Getting the door

Getting the doorTikTok/Talisa

People's opinions on this guy are evident in the comments and here are some of them

People's opinions on this guy are evident in the comments and here are some of themTikTok/Talisa

Way too many dudes like this

Way too many dudes like thisTikTok/Talisa

So many red flags

So many red flagsTikTok/Talisa

Pickup artist

Pickup artistTikTok/Talisa

Society is devolving

Society is devolvingTikTok/Talisa

The red flag

The red flagTikTok/Talisa

Calling an uber

Calling an uberTikTok/Talisa

Toxic chivalry

Toxic chivalryTikTok/Talisa

That is terrifying

That is terrifyingTikTok/Talisa

A cage in my basement

A cage in my basementTikTok/Talisa

Lasting longer than necessary

Lasting longer than necessaryTikTok/Talisa

Adding no calories

Adding no caloriesTikTok/Talisa

Everything feels sociopathic

Everything feels sociopathicTikTok/Talisa

Going on a date

Going on a dateTikTok/Talisa

Run!

Run!TikTok/Talisa

My cue to leave

My cue to leaveTikTok/Talisa

Freaking comment

Freaking commentTikTok/Talisa

Running the other way

Running the other wayTikTok/Talisa

So women like less calories

So women like less caloriesTikTok/Talisa

This commenter has encountered such men before

This commenter has encountered such men beforeTikTok/Talisa

Choosing her own food

Choosing her own foodTikTok/Talisa

A short story

A short storyTikTok/Talisa

Red flag after red flag

Red flag after red flagTikTok/Talisa

Serial killer vibes

Serial killer vibesTikTok/Talisa

Getting the rib eye

Getting the rib eyeTikTok/Talisa

Ignoring everything

Ignoring everythingTikTok/Talisa

Hats off

Hats offTikTok/Talisa

The red wine

The red wineTikTok/Talisa

Talisa released a second (now-deleted) Tiktok video after the first one went viral to clarify that it was only a parody of a bad date she had

Talisa released a second (now-deleted) Tiktok video after the first one went viral to clarify that it was only a parody of a bad date she hadTikTok/Talisa

Not all dates will have a perfect ending, but this TikToker seems to have her date going wrong from the start. It's just so annoying to find out that Mr Nice Guy is just doing everything wrong.

Have you encountered such a person before? How did you handle it?

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