Woman Who Got Pregnant During Tinder One-Night Stand Asks If She's Wrong For Wanting To Keep The Baby
Welcome back to another Reddit post that we'll be diving into today, and this time we are looking into one from the AITA thread. This thread is often used for people who are looking to get unbiased opinions or advice on a situation that they are in.
Ultimately these threads are used for people who are looking to get advice on whether or not they are wrong for how they acted or what they said in a situation. Typically getting an unbiased opinion from people that don't know you can help to give you a real answer on your actions.
The internet will usually give you a straight answer if you do something wrong. In today's post, we are looking into a woman's post who asks if she's wrong for wanting to keep a baby that was conceived during a Tinder hookup.
One of the bigger issues is that the man knows she's pregnant but doesn't want her to keep the baby. However, she truly does want to keep the baby despite his wishes, and she wouldn't ask him to help at all.
If you want to know a bit more about this situation and what people had to say about it, then stay tuned as we dive into all the details on this.
Finding out that you're pregnant can be very exciting, unexpected, or a little of both. This time, it was a little of both but the parents weren't on the same page.
UnsplashShe starts off by asking if she's wrong for having this baby that was conceived in the circumstances that it was.
u/NvrEndingThotProcessThe story is that she had a Tinder hookup but ended up pregnant in the end and she told the guy that she was with. However, he doesn't want her to keep the baby.
UnSplashOP starts off the post like this and explaining that she is pregnant with a baby at 5 weeks from a Tinder hookup.
She says that she let the guy know but he is begging her not to keep the baby. He said he doesn't want kids and can't even take care of himself and that it's not right for her to have it if they will only have one parent.
u/NvrEndingThotProcessUltimately people were taken aback by the man's reasoning for not wanting her to keep the baby.
Photo by Ashley Jones: https://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-or-teen-looking-confused-at-pregnancy-test-results-15629884/She explains her situation and says that she's not worried about it and has wanted another baby for years. So she wants to take this chance and have another baby.
u/NvrEndingThotProcessShe just wants to know if it's wrong for her to have this baby after he asked her not to. Despite all of this, she just really wanted another baby.
u/NvrEndingThotProcessHere is the full entire post sharing her story of what happened and what she wants to do.
u/NvrEndingThotProcess
People started off giving lots of advice and saying that she should at least tell him that she's going to keep it, but that he doesn't have to provide for it at all.
corlana
I agree with this in saying that he's probably concerned of what could happen in the future, but she has a right to keep it.
stacnoel
It's much easier to accept an abortion than accept that you didn't want to care for a baby that you have.
dreadpir8rob
It may have been meant to be for OP.
Get_off_critter
This very well could have been both parties though but we get where she is coming from.
nurse-ratchet-
This is a pretty wild situation to be in, but we agree with most in saying that she has a right to keep the baby, and if she's not asking for anything from him then that is fine anyway. Regardless, she has the choice, and if it was meant to be, then, she should take the opportunity to have another baby.
