It sounds like splitting up is the right choice but it's going to be hard under these circumstances.
He added a few edits to his post to explain some details about his plan and also more info on his fiance's job situation.
People didn't hesitate to tell him that he needed to get a lawyer because she probably wont' just take her name off the house.
It's definitely not fair to kind of drag her on like this if he's been thinking about tending their relationship for this long.
Some people came with their tongues untied as they took jabs at OP for his previous post and for the reasons on why he's considering leaving her.
The perspectives in the comments are honestly all over the place but if he wanted to leave he should've already left.
SO many questions and OP answers none of them so he probably already made up his mind or thought that these are invalid.
No matter what people are saying, it's clear that he needs to stop dragging this on and get things moving how he wants to.
Asking Reddit is what this thread is for but he clearly already knows what he wants to do so he needs to just do it.
She deserves better simply because he feels like she's a burden and someone else might appreciate her more.
So many people gave their opinions on this, but most of them were actually on the same page about everything and told him to continue with it. However, it seems like there might be some info missing from the situation that makes some of them have a hard time coming to a verdict here.