Man Gets Dragged To Filth Online For Disinviting His Late Wife's Children From Attending His Wedding Because They Wanted Their Fair Share

"I'm not actually their father, and they should work on their relationship with the person who actually is"

Maryjane
Man Gets Dragged To Filth Online For Disinviting His Late Wife's Children From Attending His Wedding Because They Wanted Their Fair Share

Your world is altered when your partner passes away. You are in a state of grief and sorrow as a result of the loss.

You might experience numbness, shock, and fear. Being the one who is still alive, you could feel guilty.

You might even have anger toward your late spouse at some point for leaving you. These emotions are all normal.

You might need to rebuild your own life in addition to dealing with your loss-related emotions. It can be challenging labor, but you can do it just like the OP in today's story, even though things didn't really go so well.

The OP's wife of 25 years passed away from cancer, which landed a huge financial burden on the OP. They both have a son, Andrew, but the OP's late wife, Anna, had three other kids from her past marriage, and the OP raised them up like his own.

Shortly after, the OP met another woman, whom he has since married. Given that the OP was living together in his new wife's house, selling Anna's house made a lot of sense.

When they were packing up, the OP asked Anna's kids if they wanted anything, and they said they didn't. But as the OP got the house ready for sale, a matter came up that led to his late wife's kids being uninvited to his wedding.

Read the full story for yourself below.

Here's where the headline lies...

Here's where the headline lies...u/nuke_euler

The OP has raised them as his own basically ever since he married their mom

The OP has raised them as his own basically ever since he married their momu/nuke_euler

They're insistent that Allison didn't know what was going on and was just asking questions

They're insistent that Allison didn't know what was going on and was just asking questionsu/nuke_euler
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He was offended that the OP got married the weekend after the anniversary of his mom's funeral

He was offended that the OP got married the weekend after the anniversary of his mom's funeralu/nuke_euler

The Reddit post went viral as it got more than 3k comments on only two days of being posted and here are some of the top ones

The Reddit post went viral as it got more than 3k comments on only two days of being posted and here are some of the top onesReddit
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Caring more about things and money

Caring more about things and moneyReddit

You were planning to steal their inheritance

You were planning to steal their inheritanceReddit

No wonder your biological son is angry

No wonder your biological son is angryReddit

Having a new wife to replace them

Having a new wife to replace themReddit
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They are entitled to that money just like you

They are entitled to that money just like youReddit

Slow down and work on healing

Slow down and work on healingReddit
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Disinheriting your deceased wife's kids

Disinheriting your deceased wife's kidsReddit

You just severed your relationship with your kids

You just severed your relationship with your kidsReddit
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The king of AHs

The king of AHsReddit

Trying to take money you aren't entitled to

Trying to take money you aren't entitled toReddit
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They caught this before you went any further

They caught this before you went any furtherReddit
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He keeps focusing on the financial burden

He keeps focusing on the financial burdenReddit
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You moved on from your wife so fast

You moved on from your wife so fastReddit

His late wife knew she was dying

His late wife knew she was dyingReddit

Did you have no financial interest in it?

Did you have no financial interest in it?Reddit

Blame the deeply floored health system

Blame the deeply floored health systemReddit

Being angry that you got caught

Being angry that you got caughtReddit

You sound very selfish

You sound very selfishReddit

You're getting married and not even a year has passed

You're getting married and not even a year has passedReddit

You can experience both physical and emotional agony when you are grieving. Some people recover more quickly than they anticipate, while others might take more time.

Regulations do not govern the way you should feel. There is no proper or improper way to grieve.

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Maryjane