Redditor Plans Wedding For The Same Season As Her Sister's Huge 18th Birthday Bash, She Accuses Her Of Stealing The Spotlight
Welcome back to yet another Reddit post that we'll be looking into today. These threads are so good for people who are looking into getting some advice from unbiased people on the internet.
Sometimes it is just best to get advice from people who don't really know you at all. Essentially we like to look at these posts because they're always so fun to look at, and people have so many awesome comments usually left down below as well.
So in today's post, we are actually looking into someone who is looking to see if they are in the wrong for planning their wedding to be around the same time as their younger sister's 18th birthday bash. In this situation, she wants to know if she's truly in the wrong or if maybe her sibling is being a little dramatic about the "stealing the spotlight" thing.
So with this being said, we are diving into this post today, and we'll be sharing the entire thing with you, along with some of the best comments as well. So if you're interested in hearing more about this situation and why the sister is mad, then keep on reading as we dive into all of this.
OP starts off by explaining when she's getting married and what is going on with her sister and the issue with it being so close to the birthday bash.

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She says that she's going to have the wedding around that time anyway, but obviously the sister was still highly upset about it and had a lot of issues with the situation.

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This comment got a lot of love because essentially they said exactly what we were thinking. She is not in the wrong here at all.

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I think that people think too hard on the dates that they're planning these things anyway. Her 18th birthday is well off from the wedding date.

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People pretty much agreed that her sister is the one who is TA because of her acting the way she is about OP's wedding date. It's kind of ridiculous.

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The dates are kind of a ways away and so that's why we don't really understand what OP's sister's issue is with this whole thing.

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Pretty much she sounds quite entitled and we're sorry she feels neglected in this sense but asking people not to plan something like this because of your birthday being in the same season is wild.

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I kind of hate the whole "spotlight" thing and I think we should just celebrate each other no matter what and stop caring about the "spotlight"

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It is most definitely wild and it seems that everyone is just trying to get things to be focused on them and we understand, but it's pretty selfish.

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This would be the only thing that makes sense but essentially she's just asking for too much at this point.

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Everyone pretty much agrees that she doesn't need to apologize to her sister, and they are doing what they need to do. She's not having the wedding too close because it's a couple of months away, and ultimately, the issue isn't about the dates at all.
What do you think? Have you ever been in a similar situation?