OP starts off by explaining when she's getting married and what is going on with her sister and the issue with it being so close to the birthday bash.
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She says that she's going to have the wedding around that time anyway, but obviously the sister was still highly upset about it and had a lot of issues with the situation.
This comment got a lot of love because essentially they said exactly what we were thinking. She is not in the wrong here at all.
I think that people think too hard on the dates that they're planning these things anyway. Her 18th birthday is well off from the wedding date.
People pretty much agreed that her sister is the one who is TA because of her acting the way she is about OP's wedding date. It's kind of ridiculous.
The dates are kind of a ways away and so that's why we don't really understand what OP's sister's issue is with this whole thing.
Pretty much she sounds quite entitled and we're sorry she feels neglected in this sense but asking people not to plan something like this because of your birthday being in the same season is wild.
I kind of hate the whole "spotlight" thing and I think we should just celebrate each other no matter what and stop caring about the "spotlight"
It is most definitely wild and it seems that everyone is just trying to get things to be focused on them and we understand, but it's pretty selfish.
This would be the only thing that makes sense but essentially she's just asking for too much at this point.
Everyone pretty much agrees that she doesn't need to apologize to her sister, and they are doing what they need to do. She's not having the wedding too close because it's a couple of months away, and ultimately, the issue isn't about the dates at all.
What do you think? Have you ever been in a similar situation?