Roommate Brings Coworker For Sleepover - She Drains Their Energy, Time, Fridge, And Money, They Threaten Her With Cops To Leave

"I tell her that if she shows up I'm calling the cops"

Filip

• Published in Interesting
• September 17, 2023

Some people often show a persistent pattern of imposing themselves on various aspects of other people's lives, undermining boundaries and causing them discomfort. That type of people can be categorized as toxic because their intrusive behavior can poison other's positive energy.

As soon as someone notices that others are draining their energy, the best they can do is to protect their personal well-being and remove themselves from the environment of such persons. A Reddit user shared how he managed to remove such a person from his life and the lesson he learned.

The OP shared a story involving two of his roommates, R1 and R2, and a girl named CB. CB is a coworker of his roommate, R1.

R1 invited CB to stay the night at their place because she lives far away, and her parents couldn't pick her up from work. R1 was hospitable, lending her clothes and offering their couch.

The next day, R1 went out of town, and CB asked the OP for another stay. He agreed, but then she asked him to pick her up from work.

The OP hesitantly agreed, but then she expected him to buy her blunt wraps. The following CB's incident was pressuring the OP to help her buy weed, which he firmly declined.

But when they got into the apartment, she eventually got her dealer to deliver her. CB was supposed to leave the following morning by 10 AM, but she overstayed her welcome.

The OP returned home from work and found her still there. She asked the OP to drive her to work again and audaciously used the stolen change to buy snacks en route.

The OP drove her to work and never spoke to her again despite her asking a few more times for a stay, believing that the OP owed her shelter because he owned a home. The OP eventually had to warn her that he'd call the cops if she came to his home.

Here is the OP's story:

The OP explained his roommate offered a coworker in need to stay at their home for a night:

But the next day, she asked the OP for another stay and soon after started making incidents:

She even demanded that OP drive her to get weed:

She wasn't shy about eating their food either:

She was supposed to leave the following morning but overstayed her welcome:

Eventually, the OP had to threaten her he'd call the police if she showed up again:

She has no shame

"She seems used to getting what she wants because she's a woman"

One Redditor shared a similar experience

Letting her stay is already enough

If that's what it takes

Some people just don't respect other people's boundaries and have no shame. This story proves that intrusive behavior can drain someone's energy, time, fridge, and even money.

CB's inappropriate behavior goes to the point where the OP had to threaten her not to show up at his place again, but he managed to get rid of her, and that's most important.

Filip