Viral TikTok of Airline Passenger’s ‘Manspreading’ Incident Ignites Heated Debate on Airplane Etiquette
When personal space takes flight: A viral TikTok reignites the debate on airplane etiquette.
A viral TikTok video has sparked a lively discussion about airplane etiquette after 21-year-old Erin Rempel shared her uncomfortable experience with a fellow passenger encroaching on her legroom during a recent flight. The incident took place on a Flair Airlines flight from Winnipeg to Edmonton, Canada, where Rempel found herself in the middle seat next to a man who decided to spread his legs wide, invading her personal space—a behavior commonly referred to as "manspreading."
In the video, which has garnered over 17 million views, Rempel documents her attempts to reclaim her space. Initially, she tried to gently push the man’s legs back toward him, hoping he would take the hint. However, her subtle efforts were in vain as the man continued to occupy her legroom.
Finally, she had to nudge his knee more forcefully, which eventually prompted him to shift his position. Rempel, who stands at an impressive 6-feet, 2-inches tall, pointed out that the man was shorter than her and didn’t need the extra space.
The TikTok video quickly went viral, drawing a wide range of reactions from viewers. Some supported Rempel’s decision to remain quiet and handle the situation discreetly, while others criticized her for not being more assertive.
Many questioned why she didn’t speak up or ask a flight attendant for assistance, suggesting that her experience might have been different if she had.
One user even recommended that she should have paid for an upgraded seat with more legroom, but Rempel explained that she was traveling on a budget and had opted for a $90 flight. Spending an extra $20 for an upgraded seat didn’t seem worth it for a quick visit to her family.
Despite the short duration of the hour-and-a-half flight, the video sparked a broader conversation about airplane etiquette and personal space.
The comments section was flooded with people sharing their own experiences of feeling cramped or having their personal space invaded on flights. Some viewers expressed sympathy for Rempel’s situation, while others debated the best ways to handle such incidents without causing a scene.
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Etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore also weighed in on the matter, emphasizing the importance of respecting personal space while traveling.
She advised passengers to be mindful of their surroundings and considerate of their fellow travelers. Whitmore suggested that those with longer legs should request aisle seats or seats with extended legroom to avoid encroaching on others’ space. She also recommended that passengers recline their seats slowly and check behind them to ensure they don’t accidentally cause discomfort to the person seated behind them.
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Flair Airlines, when approached for a comment, stated that they did not intend to intervene in the disagreement between the two passengers, leaving the resolution to the individuals involved.
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Reflecting on the incident, Rempel advised fellow travelers to consider speaking with a flight attendant if they find themselves in a similar situation. She acknowledged that, in hindsight, having an unbiased party assess the situation might have been helpful and could have led to a quicker resolution.
As the video continues to circulate online, it serves as a reminder of the challenges that come with maintaining personal boundaries while traveling. The incident highlights the importance of mutual respect and consideration among passengers, especially in the close quarters of an airplane cabin.
Whether the man’s actions were intentional or not, the situation underscores the need for travelers to be aware of their actions and the impact they may have on others in such confined spaces.
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