People Have Shared The Red Flags That They Look Out For When Dating

by Rachel

When you start to date someone, sometimes you overlook little details in favour of trying to build a relationship. This is a dangerous game.

When you have the rose coloured glasses on, after being struck my cupid's arrow, sometimes the red flags look a little pink. But, guess what, once the initial love has worn off, the red flags will still be there--and worse, it'll be impossible to put them down.

Once you've been dating people, you start to pick up on the small things that can lead to bigger problems later on. So, let other people's warnings help you make healthier choices, and look out for the following red flags!

1. Pretty much

1. Pretty much
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2. !!!

2. !!!

3. Make sure they respect little boundaries, too.

3. Make sure they respect little boundaries, too.

4. They just put you down to make themselves feel better and to try and control you.

4. They just put you down to make themselves feel better and to try and control you.

5. Exactly: make sure you're paying attention when someone shows you who they are.

5. Exactly: make sure you're paying attention when someone shows you who they are.

6. Too much drama is never good

6. Too much drama is never good

7. Pronouncing people's names correctly is a basic form of respect

7. Pronouncing people's names correctly is a basic form of respect

8. RUN don't walk away from self-professed "nice guys"

8. RUN don't walk away from self-professed

9. What are your biggest red flags? Share them in the comments below!

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10. Vom

10. Vom

11. Basically worshiping any entrepreneur.

11. Basically worshiping any entrepreneur.

12. These people SUCK

12. These people SUCK

13. THIS STUFF IS SO CREEPY

13. THIS STUFF IS SO CREEPY

14. Even their non-offensive jokes will never be funny

14. Even their non-offensive jokes will never be funny

15. Easy way to tell if they have respect for other people or not!

15. Easy way to tell if they have respect for other people or not!

16. Beware of someone who talks super negatively about their ex's.

This is especially true of men who call their ex's crazy

16. Beware of someone who talks super negatively about their ex's.

17. Aside from being cringe, this probably means they have deep seated power and anger issues.

17. Aside from being cringe, this probably means they have deep seated power and anger issues.

18. Not being able to take responsibility for their actions

18. Not being able to take responsibility for their actions
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19. Straight up gross people.

19. Straight up gross people.

20. If you need credit to do a good thing it was never about doing a good thing.

20. If you need credit to do a good thing it was never about doing a good thing.

21. This.

21. This.

22. "No" is not a negotiation.

22.

23. People who hate cats also have issues with women.

23. People who hate cats also have issues with women.

24. People who victimise themselves

24. People who victimise themselves
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25. NOPE

25. NOPE

26. Probably means they have no boundaries whatsoever and will do whatever it takes to get ahead

26. Probably means they have no boundaries whatsoever and will do whatever it takes to get ahead

27. Easy way for someone to prove they suck

27. Easy way for someone to prove they suck

28. YIKES

28. YIKES

29. People who get super affected over sports need to be given a red flag.

29. People who get super affected over sports need to be given a red flag.

30. Yep....

30. Yep....
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31. "I know you're not supposed to say this, but"

31.

32. Being able to apologize is a basic life skill

32. Being able to apologize is a basic life skill

33. Valid

33. Valid

34. LEGIT

34. LEGIT
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35. Who gave us those awards, huh?

35. Who gave us those awards, huh?

36. Eugh

36. Eugh

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