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Dog Owners Unveil True Reasons Why Dogs Choose to Turn Their Backs on Their Beloved Owners While Seated Nearby

Sophia
by Sophia
17 Mar 2024

When you've been with your dog long enough, you'll begin to notice a certain habit: when they're sitting close, they'll turn their back on you.

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Have you ever wondered why they do this? For us humans, turning our backs on someone often means we don't want to talk to that person.

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It can even be a sign of disinterest or aloofness. But it's a different case for dogs.

When your dog snuggles up and then gently rotates, it's actually their way of saying, "I trust you completely." You see, in the animal kingdom, exposing your back is a vulnerable move.

But when your dog does it, it's a declaration of friendship and trust. It's their way of saying, "I feel safe with you, so go ahead and give me a pat or a scratch!"

There might be a slightly self-serving aspect to your dog when he presents you with his back. Just like us, there are those hard-to-reach spots on our bodies that itch and demand attention.

We resort to rubbing against walls, twisting ourselves into peculiar positions, or employing long wooden spoons to alleviate that nagging itch on our backs. But your dog? He has a more direct approach.

He simply positions his back in front of us and patiently waits. And if you're curious about what other dog owners say on the matter, let's take a look at the responses to this Quora question:

Why does my dog sit behind me on the couch, right against my back? Does he respect me?

It's an expression of love.

I believe it’s a combination of reasons. It’s love; it shows that your dog feels comfort and security when touching you. It indicates that your dog wants to be protected by you and wants to protect you as well.
These are only theories, but whatever their reasons, aren’t we lucky that they feel this way?
It's an expression of love.
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They just want to get close to their hooman.

Your dog wants to be close to you. Being tucked behind you on the couch is the best way to ensure he won't fall off while still getting all the full-body cuddles he could desire.
This has nothing to do with respect or lack of respect—and everything to do with the desire to be as close to you as possible.
They just want to get close to their hooman.
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It's all about respect and comfort.

Not only does he respect you, but it also sounds like he finds your presence comforting and a source of security.
It's all about respect and comfort.
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Being close to you is a comfortable position for them.

Your dog sits behind you on the couch because he enjoys being close to you and finds this position comfortable. Dogs, like humans, enjoy being comfortable and will find positions and locations that work well for them.
Your dog likes sitting or lying behind your back on the couch.
The way that your dog sits or lies with you has nothing to do with respect. Respect shown by an animal is not an "if this, then that..." scenario.
There is no direct correlation between a dog's behavior and his or her level of respect for you. For example, your dog may chew up your socks and destroy them, but still respect you.
This is because your dog does not view destroying your socks as a sign of disrespect. A dog who does this likely enjoys the taste and smell of his or her human's socks and even feels closer to his or her human when chewing them because they contain his or her human's scents.
In addition, a dog may obey his or her owner but not respect him or her. He or she may simply choose to obey because the other options don't produce good results for him or her.
If your dog loves and respects you, you will know this in your heart, not by a measure of behavior.
Being close to you is a comfortable position for them.
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He protec, but most importantly, he got your bac.

I believe it’s a combination of reasons. It’s love; it shows that your dog feels comfort and security when touching you. It indicates that your dog wants to be protected by you and wants to protect you as well.
These are only theories, but whatever their reasons, aren’t we lucky that they feel this way?
He protec, but most importantly, he got your bac.
PicsbyFran

He feels safe.

I am typing this with my chihuahua laying in the exact position described. He is behind me on the couch, nestled against my upper back with his head on my shoulder.
I asked my dog training instructor this exact question, and he informed me that it is because your dog feels safe there; it is warm, and he is close to you. It is a matter of comfort both mentally and physically, as well as a display of affection.
He feels safe.
studiomexico

Apparently, this kind of behavior has a name.

I have heard this type of behavior called "posting." Similar to military terminology, it has been compared to "having your back" or protecting your vulnerable side.
Apparently, this kind of behavior has a name.
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It depends on the dog's intention.

It depends on his behavior.
If it’s somewhere he regularly goes to have a nap with his master and it doesn’t cause you any problems, he is showing affection and loyalty.
If he’s preventing you from sitting properly or actively trying to push you off the couch, he is trying to assert dominance.
Your call!
It depends on the dog's intention.
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A cute and heartwarming story.

I have a friend who has four dogs, one of which is a beautiful tri-color Australian Sheepdog. His name is "Jake."
My friend has a large and comfortable chair, which is where she sits when she has time to relax. Not long after she takes her seat, here comes Jake.
He sits in front of her, giving her that Aussie "look." She ignores him.
He puts his front paws on her lap, still giving her the look. She ignores him.
Finally, he walks around the back of the chair, puts his paws on the arm, and looks at her intently. She ignores him.
It is time. He vaults onto the chair behind her.
She might choose that moment to lean a little bit forward.
He sighs. He is one very beautiful, very happy Aussie who is where he most longs to be.
A cute and heartwarming story.
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"A love thing"

I had a small sofa here in the UK called a cuddle seat; it’s basically 1 1/2 seats. Not big enough for me and my dog to stretch out on, or so I thought, so I bought a two-seat sofa (small house).
What does my dog do? She gets around behind me, then squirms down my side between the arm and me so we’re still sitting close together.
Then she goes to sleep, very happy. It's just a love thing!
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When your beloved pet turns his back on you, it's his way of showing love. It's a sweet gesture that speaks volumes about the trust and respect he has for you.

And if you feel like giving him a little scratch in that unreachable spot, he'll be over the moon with gratitude! It's these simple moments of connection that deepen the bond between you and your beloved pet.

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