How 'Busy Bragging' Became A Toxic Trait In Today's Workplace

Chances are, you know someone who does this—maybe even without realizing it.

Damjan

• Published in Community
• October 19, 2024

In today’s fast-paced work environment, the pressures of maintaining a balanced workload while excelling at one’s job are everyday stressors for many employees. Workplace culture often pushes individuals to demonstrate their commitment and hard work to colleagues, supervisors, and clients.

Yet, a new trend emerging in offices has caught the attention of researchers: the habit of constantly expressing how stressed or overworked someone is. Referred to as "stress bragging" or "busy bragging," this phenomenon may not be as harmless as it seems.

A new study suggests that it might make individuals seem less likable to their co-workers, affecting their workplace relationships. "Stress bragging" involves people frequently highlighting how much work they have or how stressed they feel.

While it might initially seem like a way to showcase one's dedication to the job, this behavior could have unintended consequences. According to a study conducted by the University of Georgia's Terry College of Business and published in Personnel Psychology, employees who constantly mention their stress and heavy workload are often perceived as less competent by their colleagues.

Instead of viewing these individuals as hardworking, others may find them unapproachable or uncooperative. The research, led by Jessica Rodell, involved analyzing the responses of 360 participants who were asked to review statements made by imaginary colleagues after attending a conference.

Some fictional workers shared positive feedback about their experience, while others complained about how the conference added to their overwhelming responsibilities. Interestingly, the participants consistently viewed the stressed-out workers less favorably, suggesting that those complaining about their workload risk harming their workplace image.

Work can be stressful for anyone.

Rodell notes that this behavior is not uncommon, and many people may engage in it without even realizing it. She speculates that employees talk about their stress to prove their value in the workplace, showcasing how much they juggle regarding responsibilities.

However, this tactic seems to have the opposite effect, reducing their likability among colleagues rather than boosting it.

One of the study's key findings is that individuals who frequently stress-brag are less likely to receive help from their co-workers. Colleagues may see these individuals as too focused on their workload or as people who exaggerate their stress levels, making them less inclined to offer support or assistance.

This lack of cooperation can create a more isolating work environment for stress-braggers, ultimately reducing their overall job satisfaction and effectiveness. Moreover, the study showed that this behavior could ripple effect in the workplace.

Constantly discussing stress at work can make you seem less approachable and affect how colleagues perceive you.

In a follow-up investigation, the research team interviewed 218 office workers about their experiences with stress-bragging colleagues. The results revealed that when employees repeatedly emphasize their stress, it sends a message to others that being overwhelmed is somehow admirable or expected.

This can increase stress levels for everyone involved, contributing to higher rates of burnout or job dissatisfaction. Rodell calls this the "spiraling contagious effect," where stress spreads from one person to another.

While actual workplace stress is inevitable, Rodell emphasizes the difference between genuinely feeling overwhelmed and bragging about it to others. Many people face stressful situations at work, and finding the right confidant to share those feelings with is essential.

However, openly discussing stress in a boastful manner can have negative consequences. Rodell advises against treating stress as a badge of honor, noting that such behavior can backfire, leading to worse outcomes for the individual and their co-workers.

One person’s stress can impact the whole team.

The results of this study matter for how people work together. Companies and employees must understand how stress-bragging can harm relationships and work life.

People must handle their workload well, speak up when they need help, and avoid constantly complaining about stress. Employers can help by building a supportive workplace where people feel comfortable talking openly and working together.

Instead of focusing on how much stress someone can handle, businesses should value employees for their excellent work. This will keep the workplace healthy and productive.

Damjan