This Woman Tried To Ban Them From Walking Their Dog in “Her” Neighborhood — And It Did Not Go Well
A few years ago, one Redditor was just out for a peaceful walk with their dog when a random off-leash pup came charging up to them. Things escalated quickly — their dog nipped at the other one, and though they apologized immediately, the other owner brushed it off like it was no big deal.
Fast forward to today, and life has changed a lot since then. That original dog has sadly passed away, and the Redditor now has a new dog — one that just happens to look a lot like their late pup.
On a recent walk through that same neighborhood, they ran into the same woman again — and this time, she wasn’t so forgiving. She confronted the Redditor and told them not to ever walk their dog through “her” neighborhood again, claiming her dog had been traumatized and “changed” by the original incident years ago.
Confused, the Redditor explained that this was a different dog — not the same one from before — so there was no reason for her pet to be afraid. But the woman wasn’t having it, doubling down and ordering them to “walk in your own neighborhood.”
For a while, they respected her wish — sort of. Most days, they kept to their usual route close to home. But every once in a while, maybe once a month, they’d pass through her neighborhood again — after all, it’s a public street, not private property.
That’s when things went off the rails. One day, the woman spotted them from her house and came storming out the front door, yelling and calling them an “asshole” for daring to walk past again after she’d “banned” them.
The Redditor admits they didn’t exactly take the high road. Instead of ignoring her, they flipped her the bird and told her, point-blank, that she didn’t own the street and they’d walk wherever they wanted.
Now, they’re wondering if they might have taken things too far. Sure, the woman doesn’t have the right to ban anyone from a public neighborhood, but was it passive-aggressive to keep walking there just to prove a point?
The post quickly caught fire on Reddit, with people divided between “you’re totally right” and “just let it go.” Many sided with the Redditor, pointing out that public streets are, well, public, and that no one can dictate who walks their dog there. “She doesn’t own the neighborhood,” one commenter wrote. “You were being polite. She’s the one who’s unhinged.”
Others, though, thought the Redditor might be leaning into the drama a bit. “If it’s really causing that much tension, just take a different route,” one person suggested. “You’re technically in the right, but sometimes it’s better to avoid unnecessary conflict.”
A few readers brought up the woman’s perspective, too — maybe her dog really was traumatized, even if the bite years ago was minor. Dogs can develop long-term anxiety after an altercation, and the sight of a similar-looking dog might trigger that stress. “She’s not right to yell at you,” one user wrote, “but maybe her dog’s reaction is genuine fear, not her just being controlling.”
Still, others found it hard to sympathize with someone trying to gatekeep an entire neighborhood. “If she’s that worried, she can close her blinds,” another commenter quipped. “The world doesn’t revolve around her or her dog’s trauma.”
The Redditor admitted they weren’t trying to antagonize her — they just didn’t want to feel bullied out of a perfectly normal walking route. “I have a lot of options for where to walk,” they explained, “but I also don’t think she gets to tell me where I can or can’t go.”
It’s the classic neighbor showdown: one side feels entitled to control what happens on their street, and the other refuses to bend to unreasonable demands. Somewhere in between lies the question — when does standing your ground become pettiness?
Ultimately, Reddit’s verdict leaned in favor of the dog walker. “You’re not the asshole,” one commenter declared. “She’s out of line. Public streets are public streets. End of story.”
As for the Redditor, they say they’ll probably keep walking their route occasionally — not to stir the pot, but because, frankly, it’s just a nice place to walk. “I’m not trying to be petty,” they wrote. “I just don’t like being told what to do when I haven’t done anything wrong.”
She confronted the Redditor and told them not to ever walk their dog through “her” neighborhood again.
Here’s the original post by Reddit user ‘PangolinStriking2471’
A few years back I was walking my dog in a nearby neighborhood and a dog that lived in that neighborhood who was off leash came running up to my dog and my dog nipped him. I apologized to the owner and she shrugged it off and didn't seem upset.
My dog then passed away and I got another similar looking dog. When I walked that dog through the neighborhood the woman was angry and told me not to bring my dog into her neighborhood ever again since her dog was traumatized and changed by the encounter with my previous dog.
I told her this is a new dog that I've got so her dog shouldn't be traumatized by him. She told me to walk my dog in my own neighborhood and stay out of her neighborhood. For the most part I will walk my dog in my own neighborhood, but I will sometimes (maybe once a month) walk through her neighborhood.
When she saw me walking by she came out of the house screaming at me and said I was an asshole for continuing to walk through her neighborhood even after she told me I can't. I flipped her the bird and told her she doesn't own the streets and I will walk whatever street I want.
I suppose it is kind of passive-aggressive of me to continue to walk in her neighborhood since I have many options regarding where I can walk my dog, but I feel she is wrong to tell me I can't walk on the street in front of her house. Am I being an asshole? What would you do?
Here’s how the Reddit community reacted.
Might be time to start a dog walking business.
Just enjoy your life and your pooch.
NTA.
She has no say.
Just steer clear of her house.
Let her contact animal control if she wants to complain.
You can walk your dog pretty much anywhere.
She doesn’t own the street.
If the dog is on a leash, you’re fine.
No one can ban you from walking on a public street.
It’s a public area.
She’s the one whose dog was off leash.
It’s her own fault.
In the end, it’s a story about control, boundaries, and how a small moment years ago can spiral into neighborhood drama no one asked for. Because sometimes, the real leash people need to hold onto — isn’t for their dog.
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