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This Reddit User Is Worried That The Stray Cat She's Been Feeding Might Go Back To The Wrong Family

Stephanie
by Stephanie
28 Oct 2022

A stray cat showing up for food can feel harmless at first, until someone claims it might actually belong to a missing pet. That is exactly the mess one Reddit user found herself in after she and her boyfriend started feeding neighborhood cats outside their home.

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She had been posting photos of unfamiliar cats on a lost-pets Facebook page, and one woman eventually reached out saying one of them looked like her cat. Then OP found an old video that made the whole thing even more confusing, because the cat in question looked a lot like the one the woman described.

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Now OP is worried she may be about to hand over the wrong cat, and Reddit had plenty to say about it.

OP and her boyfriend have been regularly leaving food out for the outdoor cats in the neighborhood and recording them with a camera

OP and her boyfriend have been regularly leaving food out for the outdoor cats in the neighborhood and recording them with a camera
u/Xx_calpal_xx
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They posted pictures of unfamiliar cats on a Facebook page for lost cats, and one day a lady contacted them because she saw one of her cats.

They posted pictures of unfamiliar cats on a Facebook page for lost cats, and one day a lady contacted them because she saw one of her cats.
u/Xx_calpal_xx

OP made it clear that they don't have the cat and that they won't stop the lady from taking this cat to her home.

OP made it clear that they don't have the cat and that they won't stop the lady from taking this cat to her home.
u/Xx_calpal_xx

Feeding a stray cat can evoke complex emotional responses, often linked to feelings of empathy and responsibility.

Research from the Journal of Applied Animal Welfare Science indicates that people often develop attachments to animals they care for, even if temporarily, which can lead to anxiety about their well-being.

This emotional investment can create dilemmas, as individuals grapple with the responsibility of potential abandonment or return to an unsafe environment.

The people on another subreddit were harsh on her, asking her why she even cared about all of this

The people on another subreddit were harsh on her, asking her why she even cared about all of this
u/Xx_calpal_xx

She turned to Reddit for advice, and the people were ready to help

She turned to Reddit for advice, and the people were ready to help
u/Xx_calpal_xx

Feeding stray cats can be dangerous.

Feeding stray cats can be dangerous.
u/FurrySoundFlaps

That's where the comments started getting a lot more blunt.

It also echoes what happened when a Redditor refused to give her sister’s neglected cat back.

Understanding attachment theory can help explain the emotional turmoil experienced by individuals in this situation.

In this case, the user's concern for the cat's safety may stem from a desire to protect and nurture, highlighting an innate drive to care for vulnerable beings.

Some people had different opinions on this

Some people had different opinions on this
u/FunHuckleberry1124

It's a delicate situation

It's a delicate situation
u/Wiz3rd_

Check for a chip

Check for a chip
u/pnutbuttercups56

For a lot of commenters, the whole thing came down to whether the cat was actually lost or just a regular neighborhood visitor.

To address these concerns, community education on responsible pet ownership and animal welfare is essential.

Organizations like the ASPCA emphasize the importance of spaying and neutering to control stray populations, helping to mitigate the emotional burden on individuals who feed strays.

Additionally, creating a local network of volunteers can provide support for feeding and caring for strays, ensuring that no single individual feels overwhelmed by the responsibility.

Something bad could happen

Something bad could happen
u/TheOtter91

Feeding stray cats like this seems like a great deed, but the problem arises when you start feeding cats that are already being fed by their owners. This situation was challenging for the people of Reddit to provide advice on, but they did their best.

How do you feel about everything that OP has been doing?

The situation of the Reddit user feeding a stray cat highlights the emotional complexities that come with caring for animals in need. It is not just about providing food; it is about the bond formed and the responsibility felt for the animal's well-being. The user's concern about the cat returning to a potentially less caring environment underscores the importance of community engagement. By fostering dialogue about animal welfare within neighborhoods and establishing support systems, individuals can alleviate the anxiety surrounding the care of strays. This collaborative approach not only enhances the lives of these animals but also strengthens community ties, ensuring that no animal goes uncared for.

Now the only question is whether this cat is really lost, or just very well fed.

For another cat custody conflict, see why this AITA poster wanted to rehome her cat after a month.

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