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Cat Mom Vs Dog Dad: Double Standard Sparks Heated Argument Over Pet Etiquette Rules

Maryjane
by Maryjane
14 Dec 2025

Pets watching their owners eat can be both adorable and awkward. Many animals develop a fascination with food, often sitting or standing by their owners in hopes of scoring a snack.

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Dogs, in particular, are notorious for their food-motivated behavior, with some breeds being more prone to begging than others. While it can be tempting to give in to their pleading eyes, it's essential to establish limits and maintain a healthy relationship between pets and food.

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Some owners enjoy sharing their meals with their pets, while others prefer to keep mealtime separate. Cats, on the other hand, often exhibit more independence, but may still be drawn to the table or countertops in search of a snack.

It's up to each owner to decide what works best for their pet and their dining experience. OP and his girlfriend have been together for a few months, and their pets are a major part of their lives.

OP's Great Dane and his girlfriend's small cat have very different personalities, but their owners seem to love them equally. When it comes to mealtime, things get a little complicated.

OP's dog gets kicked out of the kitchen for being a little too interested in food, but his girlfriend's cat seems to have free rein to roam the table. OP is calling foul on the double standard, and his girlfriend is having none of it.

Read the full story story below to find out how everything transpired.

The OP writes...

The OP writes...
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The girlfriend's cat hopped on the table and started licking up the milk in her cereal

The girlfriend's cat hopped on the table and started licking up the milk in her cereal
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How is OP's dog being by her food worse than another animal licking it?

How is OP's dog being by her food worse than another animal licking it?
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We've gathered some of the most upvoted comments from other Redditors for you to read through below

Cats are not more sanitary than dogs

Cats are not more sanitary than dogs
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She can leave if she has a problem with it

She can leave if she has a problem with it
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This Redditor just had to say it and the OP responded

This Redditor just had to say it and the OP responded
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Cats bury their poo with their feet?

Cats bury their poo with their feet?
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The OP had this to add in the comments about his dog

she actually is a good friend to my dog, she always buys toys for him and always brings out steak for him. he also really likes her and get's super excited when he sees her car pull up. he just really grosses her out but she's not mean to him for it.

And the comments continues...

And the comments continues...
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It's important to set clear boundaries with both animals

It's important to set clear boundaries with both animals
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This Redditor wants to throw up thinking about it

This Redditor wants to throw up thinking about it
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They should both train their pets

They should both train their pets
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OP's frustration with the double standard in pet treatment is understandable, given the stark contrast between how his dog is treated versus his girlfriend's cat. The situation points out the challenges of managing different pet ownership styles in a relationship.

The incident serves as a turning point, and it might prompt the OP to reevaluate the relationship and consider whether this is a sign of deeper compatibility issues. The outcome remains uncertain, but one thing is clear: the pet behaviour issue is a significant one.

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